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In Love: Book Review

The writing is terrible but that is not the purpose of a book like this. It reads similar to an intimate portrait of someone’s diary. It’s a unique love story that really embraces the definition of “’til death do us part.”

It gives pause to “the system” of the United States and where law versus rights hit a crossroads. What rights do we have when the choice is truly not ours? Should we be in full control of our bodies and the outcome of life/death on our terms, not nature’s?

Ultimately, this book gives a firsthand account of what happens when those rights, or lack thereof, are realized. Unfortunately, this is an expensive decision. Even if it were allowed in the US. To be clear, there are some states that allow assisted suicide but with heavy restrictions. This couple had to travel to Zurich as a last resort.

Even so, there are still restrictions but there is more leniency about having choices when you have a fatal condition, anyway. So it is not for anybody with suicidal thoughts. There is an extensive vetting process. It’s hard to know if you should be sad or happy for them, as the “happy” ending depends on your perspective.

I’m Love: A Memoir of Love and Loss by Amy Bloom.

The Wife Upstairs: Review

I’m not sure why McFadden continues to make her female protagonist ditzy oblivious damsels in awe of any man nearby. Can someone be independent without relying on a guy for comfort and well-being? I wonder how much of these books are the author projecting.

The premise does pose an interesting question: what is acceptable when you want to remain with a partner who is incapable or disinterested in intimacy? Do you leave for your own selfish reasons, or do you stay and find a compromise? But what would the compromise be if it involves another person, or is it “technically” not cheating if your partner refuses to ever again be touched?

Regardless, this would not be the case for the characters here because she was a caretaker for his wife. Regardless of if he was lonely or not, he’s married, and the wife is in the next room. How much more indecent can you be? Where are the morals?

The side plot with Freddy was unnecessary and only served one purpose, which was near the conclusion. Otherwise, he was an insignificant flat character.

I thought I figured out the plot but it turns out that the author knew the reader would “think” that was the twist. She did get me in that regard. Very clever.

The epilogue could have been cut out. It was almost like she had no idea what to do with Irena and Maggie. I get that it is to tie things back to the beginning, but it felt rushed and inconcise.

As usual, great writing and overall presentation with a few misgivings. I’m still on the Freida train but hoping some of the themes change.

The Wife Upstairs by Freida McFadden

The Way Home: Tales from a life without technology: Review

I always love reading these stories and commend those who go the extra mile to give up technology or make a significant contribution to nature by way of isolation and minimalism. However, the same moral questions always come up for me. I’ll get to those shortly.

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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents: Review

To some degree, this book isn’t really about “emotionally immature” parents but simply about… parents. I’d argue that first time parents are automatically classified under this group regardless of background, status, or demographic.

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The Comfort Book by Matt Haig: Comforting or Nonsense?

Matt Haig is well recognized for his bestseller The Midnight Library (2020) which includes the serious topic of contemplating suicide. He’s written other books that touch on this very subject, as he has experienced the negative thoughts of self-destruction himself. The Comfort Book asserts to provide an authentic perspective that is motivating and genuine for those in similar positions, but how real are these words of solace for those with dark intentions?

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The Midnight Library: What Regrets Would You Revisit if Given the Chance?

Spoilers ahead! The Midnight Library is a book about what choices we would relive if we were given the chance. The underlying topic is suicide and the power of the mind during difficult times. If someone went through with such an act and had a chance to slightly alter past decisions, what would those be?

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Mexican Gothic- Have You Read It?

Mexican Gothic, in short, is about a woman who goes to an old manor to check on her cousin. The cousin recently married a man that the family knows nothing about, and fears that the cousin may be in danger. Is this actually as bad as it sounds? Read ahead to find out. 

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